
This past week I posted cringe-worthy photos of myself on Instagram showing my outfit of the day (OOTD). Yes, they truly were. It wasn’t because they were great or stylish. It was simply because I was wearing something other than leggings, sweatpants, or some other athleisure. After last Sunday’s blog, I thought I needed to do something to get myself out of the funk I was in. So I decided to commit to getting dressed at least three days out of the five-day work week. And I did it! It’s been years, since COVID times, that I put makeup on every day, so I didn’t go that far, and I was still in slippers, but I picked out an outfit, put on a pair of earrings, and took a selfie as evidence that I followed through.

As challenges go it really wasn’t much of one, of course. But it accomplished the goal. I felt better by the end of the week. Midweek I made a delicious and healthy dinner. Check out this recipe if you’re looking something healthy and light and so easy (and you like fish).
I also have to confess that it did help that S was in town for a few days at the end of week. I got the reassurance I needed that I’m important to him and that he misses me. I knew this of course, but hearing it directly from his lips gave me a much-needed boost. He’s back in Savannah now but we have plans to cook together, virtually, next weekend.
I’m feeling better this Sunday. I don’t have the “scaries” today. After S left this morning, I finished up laundry and my library book and then went to get a couple new books. I’m looking through recipes to find something to challenge myself (and S) with, and I’m even using AI to come up with some photography prompts. I miss the Weekly Photo Challenges that I used to participate in here on WordPress.
I don’t expect that this is the end of sad or lonely days for me. I know there will be more. But I’m going to do my best to make them as infrequent as possible.
If it is none of my business please tell me
So …but why did S leave to begin with? His job? His interest? Felt y’all were getting too close?